Excuse Killer

 We've all been there - setting ambitious goals for ourselves, only to find a laundry list of excuses preventing us from taking action. We promise to get in shape, start a business, or spend more time with family, but somehow, these aspirations fall by the wayside. One of the most prevalent excuses we hear is "I don't have enough time." In this blog post, we'll explore the common tendency to give in to excuses and why we need to become "excuse killers" to attain our dreams.

 Have you ever noticed how readily you'll go out of your way to help a friend or even an acquaintance, but struggle to make the same commitment to yourself? We often prioritize others over our own desires, and when it comes to self-improvement, we let excuses take the reins. The most frequent culprit is the "time" excuse, and it's one that raises eyebrows and evokes skepticism. After all, it's rare to find someone truly devoid of any spare time. The fact of the matter is that it's not about the time; it's about the importance we assign to our goals.

 The business magnate overseeing multiple successful enterprises and the salaried employee both have 24 hours in a day. The key distinction is how they allocate that time. Time isn't the enemy; it's our perception of its significance. It's not about having more time; it's about using the time we have more effectively. Unfortunately, life tends to throw curveballs when we seek change. Adversity and resistance are like gatekeepers, testing our resolve. Adversity exists to determine if we genuinely desire what we claim, and whether we're willing to pay the price.

 The scale of the change we aim for dictates the investment required to make it a reality. Consider my own journey when I walked away from a thriving trucking company that we had spent four years building. I found myself in unfamiliar territory, working in a different town, facing a long commute, and putting in 12-hour workdays. It was a perfect setup for giving up on my workout routine. Yet, as Tom Bilyeu, the founder of Quest Nutrition, pointed out, the most insidious thing about excuses is that they are valid. In my case, it was true; I had limited time and energy. However, I realized I couldn't allow that to excuse my inaction.

 I knew I couldn't let the lack of time and energy dictate my life. So, I made the decision to take matters into my own hands. Even if it meant sacrificing precious sleep, I committed to hitting the gym at 3:30 in the morning before embarking on my grueling 14-hour workday. I remember standing at the edge of my bed, berating myself for wanting to retreat into its comforting embrace. I would remind myself that my commitment was more significant than the allure of the bed.

 Whether it's committing to a workout routine, launching a business, or anything else, you can make progress when you're willing to push through discomfort. The change won't occur overnight, but by consistently refusing to accept excuses, you can build the habit of taking control over your life. Anything worthwhile typically demands surmounting challenging circumstances.

 For me, this daily commitment to consistency began in 2017 and acted as a gateway to a better life. However, a word of caution: once you stop accepting excuses from yourself, you'll find it challenging to listen to or be around individuals who revel in their victim mentality. The good news is that you'll develop an unwavering confidence and open the door to becoming a perpetual learner.

 Becoming an excuse killer is a transformative journey that puts you back in touch with your inner strength. It's the path to unleashing your inner "Savage" and gearing up for challenges you once thought impossible, as I discovered in my quest to conquer Spartan Races. In our next discussion, I'll delve into the hurdles I faced on that unexpected adventure.

 So, remember, if you want to make a difference in your life and achieve your goals, it's time to silence the excuses and become an excuse killer. Your dreams are worth it.