Avoid letting your perspective on a situation convict someone based solely on your viewpoint. Anger can arise when our position influences how we perceive things. However, examining the situation from another angle can drastically alter our understanding of reality.
This principle is applicable in various aspects of life. The 2008 film "Vantage Point" showcased different perspectives on a bombing, illustrating how each person had a unique reality based on their viewpoint.
Judging someone's actions unfavorably may occur when we lack information about the variables they considered or their point of view. Previous struggles, experiences, or hidden dangers can significantly impact situations.
The year 2020 gave me some real-life experience and it took me about a year to realize a different perspective on situations. I became aware that our minds tend to have a negative bias, which is a primitive, ancient protective mechanism.
Over the years, I learned that memories aren't meant to evoke warm feelings; they exist to protect us. Scars on the brain from past burns or hurts serve as a defense mechanism. Sometimes, what we perceive as negative situations are merely our interpretations, with the mind being a co-conspirator to support our viewpoint.
Our minds actively seek out and find supporting facts or instances that align with what we believe. Shifting from a negative to a positive mindset involves recognizing that circumstances are growth opportunities.
When I shifted my perspective, I became inherently positive. I realized most people genuinely want the best for themselves and others, and while there is evil in the world, I understand that most people are seeking happiness and fulfillment.
Taking control of your mindset involves inputting positive influences and filtering out negativity, much like caring for your body. Your mind can become a well-oiled machine or a dumpster fire, depending on what you choose to expose it to.
The words we speak have the power to create. Human beings are unique in their ability to speak things into existence. Be mindful of what you allow into your mind, as it influences what comes out of your mouth.
Choosing positive books, personal development, and a healthy mindset is akin to nourishing your mind with nutritious food. Being selective about media consumption, avoiding constant negativity, and understanding the impact of your words can shape the direction of your thoughts and, ultimately, your life. Choose wisely, my friend!